Yesterday, when MIL fetched YX at the kindie, YX was so HAPPY and PROUD to tell her that "Ah Ma, today I FOUGHT with my friend !!! " MIL was of course shocked and asked him why, which YX does not know how to answer. Then, MIL asked HOW you fight? And his replied was "Like that" while showing the kicking action. *faint*
Once we were back home after work, MIL immediately told us about this and we confronted YX. He started to realise he was in the wrong and dare not reply us. (Maybe we raised our voice at him). He merely shakes and nod his head. So, we stop asking him questions as he was not in the correct mood to speak.
While helping him to bathe, I took that opportunity to ask him again WHY he fight. Finally, he told me "Because I took my friend's pen. So he kicked me. Then I kicked him back !" *double faint*
I reminded him in future NEVER EVER take your friend's things. And if your friend kick / beat you, the 1st thing you should do is to inform your teacher. Then, I asked him "When you two fight, didn't the teacher say anything?" And I was surprised with YX's replied " Teacher DID NOT SEE". Maybe too many students and the teacher did not notice?
No bruises on him (unlike the previous time) but I was just worried if he gets carried away and continue to fight. He might think it is an interesting 'game' to play. We even frighten him if ever he fights again, policemen will come and take him away. Then, he will not be able to see us anymore. He listened quietly and looked a bit confused. Wonder will this statement wakes him up? Sigh!
Am I bringing up a samseng in my home? Please help me !